There are always options that exist beyond the frame work of our imagination. We get our imagination from 3 things. It comes from what we 1) have experienced, 2) have seen, or 3) have been taught. There are always things we have not experienced, seen or been taught. We haven't learned or felt all that there is. This is a fact. So when you look at life and you you feel trapped because your frame work can't come up with one more option. Know that that is merely a limitation of sight. So unless you have experienced, seen or been taught all there is to ever know...there exist an option outside the frame.